Love and Chemistry
It is a pain to see people suffer from unsuccessful relationships. So I decide to post this page to help you understand why things happen the way they do and find some sort of relief.
After studying both Western Astrology and Chinese Astrology, I have come to the conclusion that to a considerable extend, whether love between two people grows or erodes over time depends on how good a match they are in Chinese Astrology. An explanation for this, simply put, is that people of different Chinese Zodiac Signs have different purposes and goals in life. After a long period of time together, a couple get to know each other better and their love for each other will grow or erode, depending on whether their goals are matching or not.
As to chemistry between two people, it is my conclusion that the better a match in Western Astrology, the stronger the chemistry is. An explanation for this, simply put, is that people of different Western Zodiac Signs have different approach to many things in life, including showing and perceiving love. However, chemistry also depends on physical condition. When a couple are young, the chemistry between them is always strong no matter whether they are a match in Western Astrology or not. But when a couple get older, the chemistry between them becomes weaker. Then is when being a good match in Western Astrology will help.
When both Western Astrology and Chinese Astrology are put in perspective, here is how relationships evolve under their influences. Chemistry is strong between any two people when they are young. So as long as they fall in love with each other, relationship can happen between any two young people and it can last for quite some time. But after some time, a couple are more likely to part if they are not a match in Chinese Astrology. For a couple who are a match in Chinese Astrology but not a match in Western Astrology, it is more likely for them to stay in their marriage. However, one of them (the one who is physically stronger) or both of them will have the tendency to have extra marital affairs. This is because the chemistry between them is no longer as strong as before or is weaker than the chemistry between them and their lovers outside of their marriage.
Here is one important point that I should clarify concerning the relationship between love and Chinese horoscope compatibility. Whether two people fall in love with each other or not does not have anything to do with whether they are a match in Chinese Astrology or not. Chinese horoscope compatibility only affects long term prospect of a relationship. Western Astrology, on the other hand, does decide how quickly or easily two people become intimate. The older they are, the more it becomes true to them.
Finally, I should point out that although it would be great if the person you fall in love with is a match with you in both Chinese Astrology and Western Astrology, as you can see from the horoscope compatibility charts, it does not happen often. If you wait until you find the perfect match, you may never find one. This is not because that you may never find someone who is a match with you in both Chinese Astrology and Western Astrology. It is because that you may never fall in love with one. So it is better to enjoy the love when it lasts and move on when it is over or simply do not date at all.
As to why people fall in love, it is a mystery. I have no answer to it. Maybe it is exactly because the reasons for falling in love are always mysteries that people can fall in love. So it is better not to explore them.
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November 25th, 2009 on 5:25 pm
i am a 21 year old gemini/dragon lady and i am in love w/ a 41 year old cancer/monkey man. guessing, 20 years makes a big difference b/c he is not in love with me. maybe its because our western comp. isnt too compatible. or maybe im just in love with the idea of him. hes an awesome person and anyone who ends up with him is the luckiest woman like ever! hehe
November 13th, 2009 on 3:45 am
i fell over heels for this scorpio, and i am a leo female of course.we spent a fun weekend together he did things to me that i haven’t felt in a long time, and i want to see him again,but i don’t think he wants to see me.please tell me what to do about this situation please,because my so called friend hated on us i think, and he ask me a question of something that i know that she told him,and i kinda lied about it and i don’t know why.but i want to talk to him again please help me with situation?
November 5th, 2009 on 2:11 am
Okay, so the man that I love is a Pisces/Tiger and I am a Cancer/Goat. Horrible matching in Chinese, wonderful in Western. Really? I want to be able to sustain our relationship for a long, long time. This man is amazing. I hope we can make it last and beat the odds!
October 19th, 2009 on 8:38 pm
ya i had a huge crush on this guy at school and well i get his birthday and number from a friend i check this site out and it said we were a match made in heaven since im a pisces women and hes a scorpio man, but ya i got the courage to call and ask him out and now were going out and he so nice and hot lol but im happy i found this site cuz it gave me courage
September 21st, 2009 on 7:21 pm
01/15/1932 – Sheep/Capricorn/Male
07/03/1934 – Dog/Pisces/Female
One of the best match in Western but in Chinese zodiac, it is one of the worse match. Minor fight some overtime, nothing serious. They live a happy life together with 3 kids, till death do they part (Grandmother, grand father still around).
September 4th, 2009 on 2:33 pm
i am married to a capricorn he is the most controling person while he acts like this angel to almost everyone else he is a tyrant to me & our grown children in then past it was not so bad but since he has retired i can’t go anywhere unless he goes to this is driving mad
August 20th, 2009 on 12:00 am
I am in a relationship where I am a Cancer woman and my boyfriend is a Scorpio man
we also match with I am the snake woman and he is the rooster man Perfect match yes we are the perfect match what are the chances of matching all signs? I am blessed to have him we were made for each other.
July 24th, 2009 on 11:40 am
love is mystreious yet i ntry 2 find it in any possible way
May 6th, 2009 on 11:38 am
I think this is very true, however; I would like to add that we cannot always judge on the sun sign compatibility when finding love in the Western compatibility. Moon and Rising are equally important and the Ying and Yang also must be taken into consideration.
April 30th, 2009 on 2:56 am
Wise words at the end of this explanation. This article gave me a better understanding of the differences between compatibility and lasting, long term love.